Thursday, 17 December 2009
'The Shaming of the Strong'
I spent a gloriously miserable afternoon yesterday - thanks, Mary! Or maybe I should say miserably glorious. Jane wisely went out shopping while I finished the book Mary recommended, Sarah Williams' The Shaming of the Strong. It is a magnificent book - vividly written. It begins when Sarah has a scan which reveals that her longed-for third baby has a serious genetic abnormality which would mean it wouldn't survive birth. The medics expected that she would have an abortion, but she and her husband Paul decided against and instead, with all their family, loved the baby Cerian to the end - at a huge cost, physically, socially and spiritually. As you know, MND leaves you susceptible to emotion and at a lot of points I was very moved. All I can say about my weeping is that Jane didn't leave me enough handkerchiefs. And as for my wailing - you'd better ask Jess the dog, as she was the only witness. However if you want an affirmation of the preciousness and value of life - even of the weakest and most 'useless' person - you really ought to read The Shaming of the Strong. It's a beautiful book. By the way, I wasn't the only one who cried on reading it. Why do you think Jane went out?